In a very practical (integral) logistical vein, STIs and even unwanted pregnancies are a thing. Of course, only you know how far to take it with a given person in a given time, place, or mood. With making out, though, it can be easier to extend that period of initial courtship, and build a bigger fire-or else walk away without future expectations (yours or theirs). And while it’s true that either of those things can, of course, happen without sex in the picture, it usually is. When it comes to first times, sleeping with someone often leads to a) never seeing them again, or b) things getting progressively more serious. Think of it as a jolt to your butterfly queendom. Why not even get a bit kinky with it and pretend you’ve sneaked out of your parents’ house at night or ducked behind the school at recess? Why not get in touch with the newness and excitement of the act as well as the person you’re making out with? They don’t have to be new in your life for this to work. In our age of internet pop-up porn, instant gratification, and overexposure, there is something young, innocent, and exploratory about simply making out. Whether that build-up best commences hours, days, or even weeks before causing said explosion, who’s to say? Some would say making out is a necessary build up for mind-blowing sex. So when sex finally happens, it’s even better for it. Making out builds anticipation, stimulates your imagination, and awakens your sex drive and your sense of excitement.
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The crazy part: you can stop, walk away full of wanting, and then come back, supercharged. Maybe there’s some ceremonious dry humping going on somewhere in there, but it’s an endurance sport, not a sprint. It’s easier than one might think to spend a solid hour (or 7) making out, and teasing one another, fully clothed. It leaves you wanting more (in a good way) Perhaps I sound cynical, but on the contrary: I just think slowing down the motions can bring the best kind of clarity when it comes to one’s desires. And no one even has to get naked or wake up confused, disappointed, or late for work. What better way to gauge chemistry and attraction and make sure all the sparks are appropriately flying than to engage in a bit of lip-locking and some good ol’ heavy petting? Typically, you can tell within seconds whether or not you have chemistry.
Whether you’re just getting to know someone or have been together for years, here, I offer you 8 reasons making out can be even hotter than sex, so take note.Įver heard Cher’s ancient classic, " It’s in his kiss"? It’s an oldie but a goodie, and she was so right. The goddess of foreplay and authentic arousal does weep. While hopefully you do at least make out as a lead up to sex, I know many skip it, and that’s a crying shame, friends. But amid all the hoopla surrounding the grand, (hopefully) earth-shattering act, especially in today’s world of one-night stands and quick hookups, good old making out (just for the sake of making out) often gets neglected.
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